Aries

Some of what you carry came to you before you had language for refusing it. Your mother's way of apologizing without saying sorry. Your father's shoulders when money got tight. The particular silence that meant someone was about to leave the room. You learned these as facts about the world, not choices someone was making. Now you can see the difference. What felt like weather was actually a person deciding how to be in the room. That recognition is the first step toward deciding differently. You don't have to keep their solutions to problems you don't actually have.