Virgo
That which we are, we shall teach, not voluntarily, but involuntarily. Thoughts come into our minds by avenues which we never left open, and thoughts go out of our minds through avenues which we never voluntarily opened.
Ralph Waldo Emerson, The Over-Soul
The expectations you carry that feel most like your own are often the ones you inherited so early you never questioned who handed them to you first. They live in the gap between what you think you want and what you find yourself doing when no one is watching. You can spot them by looking for the places where your choices surprise you, where you catch yourself performing for an audience that is not in the room. The moment you stop performing one of these expectations, even for a day, the space it was taking up becomes visible.