Sagittarius
We all build internal sea walls to keep at bay the sadnesses of life and the often overwhelming forces within our minds. In whatever way we do this--through love, work, family, faith, friends, denial, alcohol, drugs, or medication, we build these walls, stone by stone, over a lifetime.
Kay Redfield Jamison
The private rules you live by are not the same thing as the boundaries you tell other people about. They are the small laws you made for yourself when something happened that you decided would not happen again, and they have been quietly running your choices ever since. Some of them still serve you well. Others have hardened into limits that no longer match the life you are trying to build now. The question is not whether you need rules to live by, but whether the ones you carry were made by the person you were or the person you are becoming.