Pisces

When someone keeps pushing against the same line you have drawn, they are not testing your resolve but teaching you something about what you actually need. The testing reveals which boundaries were real limits and which were just habits dressed up as rules. You discover that some lines you thought were essential can bend without breaking anything important, while others hold a weight you had not fully understood until someone leaned against them. The person doing the testing is often as surprised as you are by what they find on the other side of their pushing.