Cancer

The debt you carry that has nothing to do with money is the kind that accumulates so slowly you forget you are carrying it at all. It might be the extra hours you put in because someone else cannot manage their workload, or the emotional labor of being the one who always asks how everyone else is doing. These debts have no payment plan and no clear endpoint, which is what makes them so exhausting to carry. The cost is not in what you give but in how the giving becomes so automatic that you forget you chose it once, and you can choose differently now.