Aries

The private rule you follow that no one else knows about is working exactly as you designed it to work. You made it up in response to something specific, probably years ago, and now it runs so quietly in the background that you forget it is a choice rather than a fact about how things are. The rule shapes which invitations you accept, which conversations you enter, which problems you decide are worth your attention. What you have not considered is whether the thing that made the rule necessary is still true.