Aquarius
The master's tools will never dismantle the master's house. They may allow us to temporarily beat him at his own game, but they will never enable us to bring about genuine change.
Audre Lorde
What you carry forward from your family is not always what you would have chosen to receive, but it becomes yours to decide what to do with. The skills, the silences, the ways of moving through conflict or avoiding it entirely arrive without your consent and then sit in your hands, waiting. You can see how others might benefit from what feels like a burden to you, how your particular way of holding distance or cutting through confusion serves purposes you never intended. The question is not whether you asked for this responsibility, but how deliberately you want to wield what was handed down.